Here’s what I’m thinking (Uh-oh, honey! She’s thinking again)…, If by December 31st I want to find him, I need at least 3 months of dating him to know if he’s the one (I don’t need to marry him by this time, just feel like this is the guy). That means by this month, or next month at the latest, me and my him will have to go on our first date. Does that mean I should be more or less choosy about who I go out with over the next 8 weeks?